More than 40 million Americans are in a no sex or low sex marriage and most of the time, it is the man who has lost interest in intimacy. These men who have lost their desire - who are they? Why don’t they want to have sex? After all, isn’t sex something that men are supposed to want all the time? What’s wrong here? Is the problem physical, emotional, psychological, or are these guys simply bored with their partners? Is it unexpressed rage at relationships failing them in other ways? Are they suffering in silence from sexual dysfunction, afraid of embarrassing themselves and not satisfying their spouses? Is decreased interest in sex just an unacknowledged but natural fact of life for a lot of people? Now that there is limitless access to pornography, are some men no longer able to be turned on without it? Are they becoming satiated? Or, do they have a fully functioning libido, just not for their wives? Infidelity aside, it is any or all of the above that are possible reasons. And sadly, many men refuse professional help. Further, what can their partners do? HE’S JUST NOT UP FOR IT ANYMORE will draw on Berkowitz’s survay of thousands of people who are in sexless marriages. Award-winning talk-show host and journalist Dr. Bob Berkowitz, with his decades of interviewing people about their sex lives, will discuss this personal and delicate topic with many, analyze and interpret the results, and offer solutions based on the research and experience of many leading experts in the field. Men won’t talk to their partners about this. Dr. Bob Berkowitz will. He has an uncanny ability to get men to open up on even the most intimate of subjects. HE’S JUST NOT UP FOR IT ANYMORE will give women a window into the sexless man’s brain, so they can understand their partners and help them address the issues that have inhibited sex.
Language
English
Pages
256
Release
December 26, 2007
ISBN 13
9780730413004
He's Just Not Up for It Anymore: Why Men Stop Having Sex, and What You C: When Men Stop Having Sex, and What Women Are Doing About It
More than 40 million Americans are in a no sex or low sex marriage and most of the time, it is the man who has lost interest in intimacy. These men who have lost their desire - who are they? Why don’t they want to have sex? After all, isn’t sex something that men are supposed to want all the time? What’s wrong here? Is the problem physical, emotional, psychological, or are these guys simply bored with their partners? Is it unexpressed rage at relationships failing them in other ways? Are they suffering in silence from sexual dysfunction, afraid of embarrassing themselves and not satisfying their spouses? Is decreased interest in sex just an unacknowledged but natural fact of life for a lot of people? Now that there is limitless access to pornography, are some men no longer able to be turned on without it? Are they becoming satiated? Or, do they have a fully functioning libido, just not for their wives? Infidelity aside, it is any or all of the above that are possible reasons. And sadly, many men refuse professional help. Further, what can their partners do? HE’S JUST NOT UP FOR IT ANYMORE will draw on Berkowitz’s survay of thousands of people who are in sexless marriages. Award-winning talk-show host and journalist Dr. Bob Berkowitz, with his decades of interviewing people about their sex lives, will discuss this personal and delicate topic with many, analyze and interpret the results, and offer solutions based on the research and experience of many leading experts in the field. Men won’t talk to their partners about this. Dr. Bob Berkowitz will. He has an uncanny ability to get men to open up on even the most intimate of subjects. HE’S JUST NOT UP FOR IT ANYMORE will give women a window into the sexless man’s brain, so they can understand their partners and help them address the issues that have inhibited sex.